The fact that it’s harder for most women to orgasm than it is for men is common knowledge, but did you know that there are ways to help your missus make it to heaven?
Ok, gentlemen, get that notepad out.
In the Middle Ages society believed that if a woman didn’t orgasm while having sex, the chances of her getting pregnant were reduced. Now, unfortunately, we all know that’s not true, but it’s a real shame that people don’t believe this anymore.
The truth is, we know that it’s harder for us to orgasm and we know that it’s usually not your fault that we don’t. But let’s be honest now: how many times have you orgasmed and left your woman spread-eagled on the bed wondering what the fun in that was?
This doesn’t need to happen again! There are ways – ways my husband was taught by yours truly and is now apparently using on his latest conquest – to help a woman get to seventh heaven.
The first thing you need is a romantic atmosphere – now I’m not saying that you need to get candles and a violinist, but to make the woman you’re about to sleep with feel wanted and appreciated and to make sure that the surroundings are comfortable. You might manage to unleash your sexual chakra in the back of an alleyway, but it’s much harder for that to happen to us.
If you’re wearing a condom or do not naturally produce pre-cum, then you’re going to need some lubricant to help reduce the friction and allow for smoother jiggling and wiggling. You also shouldn’t rush or be too demanding of your woman (don’t ask to change positions ten times, don’t expect her to use every limb for your enjoyment, etc.).
You should kiss her, embrace her, and make her feel loved (if you don’t love her, at least make her feel wanted). You should also be aware that orgasm through penetration is harder than orgasm through oral.
Going down on her and showing her some love can work wonders. It’s also a good idea to use your fingers and tongue to help stimulate her. (Side note: most women don’t squirt like they do in porn, sorry boys!)
The best way for her to orgasm is to let her run your sex sessions from time to time. She knows where the spot is and you’ll know when that spot has been hit, and trust me, the faces we make when we’re not faking it might be a complete revelation.
Has this worked out for you? What do you think of Evelyn’s advice? Let us know!