“Cream coloured ponies and crisp apple strudels,
Doorbells and sleigh bells and schnitzel with noodles,
Wild geese that fly with the moon on their wings,
These are a few of my favourite things.”
Screw that crap, I get no kick off ‘blue satin sashes’ and ‘snowflakes that stay on my nose and eyelashes’. When it comes to satisfying a woman, you need something more tactile.
Gradualness: Most men go from zero to sex hero in the blink of an eye, but – ardent feminists stop reading here, thank you – nothing feels better than being conquered slowly. Touch her back, hold her hand, kiss her slowly and then passionately; give it time!
Whisper: Nothing sends shivers down someone’s spine like a whisper from someone they are attracted to. The warm breath and the brush of the lips to an ear is orgasmic. Tell a woman how beautiful she is, make her feel like a million dollars and do it gently – whisper it.
Tease: Let us not forget that anticipation is half the fun. Don’t just jump into bed, because the reality is that every screw gets to a point where it can’t be turned any more, no matter how hard you try. Talk about sex using innuendos, kiss her neck, nibble her ear, wrap your arms around her waist – the tease will make things more mind-blowing for the both of you.
Massages: People these days think massages are all about going to some spa and having someone relieve the tension – no pun intended – but massages are a great way of turning something ‘dirty’ into something magical. Use some baby oil or lubricant to make it even more sensual – and before someone complains about the stains on the sheets: trust me, they’ll wash out.
Switch: The truth is, that not everyone is comfortable being seen naked, so don’t get offended if a woman asks you to slow down and take it slow. One thing that some women just love is feeling in control, and it takes a real man to allow it. Next time you kiss her, take her hand and put it on your thigh or your around your back – you’d be surprised by just how much it works!
Niceness: Whether we like to admit it or not, some women like an alpha male, while others like a decent chap who isn’t full of shit. Whether you’re the alpha or the decent chap, be nice and courteous – don’t cheat, don’t ignore her, don’t flirt with other women in her presence – believe me, nothing will make her want you more.
Do you have any other ideas about what sends shivers down a woman’s spine? Do you disagree with any of Evelyn’s tips? Let us know!